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Tips for Success

  SUCCESS IS IN CATEGORY Success is classified into two category which had been summaries as following 1. Spiritura success: Spiritual issue is anything pertaining to God and heaven 2. Physical success: physical success is any achievement that a man attained in life,it could be financial, academical RECIPE FOR SUCCESS 1. Desire: Desire is to have an ambition of a particular thing strong wish to have something 2. Determination: Determination is a resolute of mind to undertake a certain venture or to embark on a particular endeavors. To decide definitely to do something 3. Deligence: deligence is to work hard untill a goal is achived. Careful and thorough work or put more effort on a thing MY POINT OF REFERENCE Isaac the son of Abraham Gen( 26:1-33) Isaac could be called successful man in his own term according to what was recorded of him in the scripture. 1. He was the only legitimate child of Abraham 2. He knew the God of his farther 3. He had encounter with God 4. He obe
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Fight against stress

     INTRODUCTION Stress is ‘wear and tear ‘our minds and bodies experience as we attempt to cope with our continually changing environment. People often think of stress as pressure at work ,a sick child or rush -hours traffic. These events may be triggers ,but stress is actually the body’s internal reaction to such factor .      Stress is the  automatic fight or fight response in the body, activation by adrenaline and other stress hormones , which stimulate a variety of physiological changes ,such as increased heart rate and blood pressure ,faster breathing muscle tension ,dilated pupils ,dry mouth and increased blood sugar .      Stress is the state of increased arousal necessary for an organism to defend itself when faced with danger . Whenever we feel anxious, tense, tired ,frightened, elated or depressed ,we are undergoing stress.            Certain types of stress ,such as physical and mental exercise ,sex, and intense creativity, are actually very desirable .it’s only when

KICKING OUT STRESS

                KICKING OUT  STRESS Their is a two (2) types of stress 1. Negative stress 2. Positive stress                                     NEGATIVE STRESS     Excessive, prolonged and unrelieved stress can have a harmful effect on mental, physical and spiritual health. If left unresolved, the feeling of anger, frustration, fear and depression generation by stress can trigger a variety of illness. It is estimated that stress is the most common cause of ill health in modern                                             society, probably underlying as many as 80% of all visits to family doctors.          Stress is a contributory factor in relatively minor conditions, such as headaches, digestive problems, skin complaints, insomnia and ulcers, but also l plays an important role in the leading cause of death in the western world cancer, cardiovascular disease, respiratory disorders, accidental injuries, cirrhosis of the liver and suicide.                            POSITIVE STR

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Be Yourself. Do not be phony in your relationship, trying to be someone or something different as a way to please your mate. For a relationship to work, both people need to be themselves and react to things naturally. Just imagine if you are really kind of on the silly side, enjoying life to the fullest. Then you meet a wonderful person who is much more conservative than you are. Because you are attracted to them, you try to squelch your normal vibrant personality. You are miserable and eventually, the person is going to be exposed to the real you. You have to base any relationship on honesty or it will eventually fall apart.   Love Means Having to Say You Are Sorry. If you make a mistake by doing or saying something that is hurtful or damaging to the relationship, say that you are sorry. Many people struggle with these words, even when they know that what they did was wrong. It actually takes a strong person to apologize. Do not wait until you think you have the courage but say it

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A Night Of Passion. Intimacy and passion in relationships is not only important but also healthy. Couples need to enjoy being together in an intimate way. When relationships are troubled, the last thing either person wants is to be sexual or passionate with each other. However, this is a part of the healing and rebuilding of the relationship and although it might be awkward in the beginning, it is crucial. Make your intimate time together special. Surprise your mate with a warm bubble bath, lighted candles, soft music, and a bottle of wine, or reserve a nice romantic evening at a local hotel to include a wonderful candlelit dinner, fine wine, and a beautiful room. Communicate. When couples are having problems in a relationship, communication is the first thing to stop. It is often easier to just be quiet than to get mad. When rebuilding relationships, just as communication was the first to stop, it now needs to be the first to start. This will require that both individuals let dow

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Lighten Up. Often when couples have gone through or are going through some bumpy spots in their relationship, things tend to get serious. It could be that there is a tremendous amount of tension or perhaps they are not sure what to say. Regardless of the reason, learn to lighten up. Do not take every comment, glance, or movement as a serious problem. If your mate makes a mistake, which you both will, let it go, or if appropriate, laugh about it. If you make a mistake, do not be afraid to poke fun at yourself. This will automatically start the process of tension breaking.  Predictability. If asking couples the factors involved in the demise of their relationship, one of the common responses is that everything in the relationship is so predictable. When rebuilding a relationship, do not be afraid of letting go of boredom. If you normally hate the fact that Saturday afternoons consist of your mate sitting for hours watching football, fix some finger sandwiches and something cool to dri

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Lighten Up. Often when couples have gone through or are going through some bumpy spots in their relationship, things tend to get serious. It could be that there is a tremendous amount of tension or perhaps they are not sure what to say. Regardless of the reason, learn to lighten up. Do not take every comment, glance, or movement as a serious problem. If your mate makes a mistake, which you both will, let it go, or if appropriate, laugh about it. If you make a mistake, do not be afraid to poke fun at yourself. This will automatically start the process of tension breaking.  Predictability. If asking couples the factors involved in the demise of their relationship, one of the common responses is that everything in the relationship is so predictable. When rebuilding a relationship, do not be afraid of letting go of boredom. If you normally hate the fact that Saturday afternoons consist of your mate sitting for hours watching football, fix some finger sandwiches and something cool to dri